The 1 Rule To Loving Yourself - #RomanticThursdays2:33:00 PM
Milestone : The I Love You
Knowing yourself is one thing, loving yourself is another. So you pulled out your notebook, in one of my previous posts, and brainstormed about knowing yourself.
Now what you see, you may not like. And that's when CHANGE comes in.
You need to realize IF there's a difference between who you are and who you want to be. And no, who you want to be can't be Gigi Hadid. I want you to compare yourself to your own GOALS. And if who you are is who you want to be, then what are you even doing here?
Now, in order to appreciate your current self, I'm going to take you through one single step.
Oh, the dreaded word.
Ironically enough, I'm afraid of commitment. *Man, what she talking 'bout? She ain't teachin' us sh*t.*
When I say I'm afraid of commitment, I mean to anyone ELSE. Even a monthly subscription can make me feel too dependent. Yes, it's a sickness. But, roll with me.
Hence, the beautiful fact that I ruin all my relationships!
Committing to yourself is something else.
Here's the deal. *Inserts long, hear-felted message as to how you are with yourself 24/7. *
So, this probably looks quite vague to you. But here's how I do it.
I know each and everyone one of us has hectic weeks. No matter where you are in life, your duties get the best of you.
Are you familiar with these lyrics ?
"In a world full of people, you can lose sight of it all."
Basically what you need is to give YOURSELF time. And no, totally not for the same purposes of what was described in my old post.
It's more of a time to meditate, to think, to figure out where you are and where you want to be, it's a time to keep track of whether you are closer to your goals, whether you're hitting a wall.
How does committing to yourself lead to loving yourself?
Easy, peasy, lemon squeezy.
Once you're controlling what's happening with you, you can start making changes. You'll be the boss of you.
And that's how it's done.